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	<title>Comments on: Abusive Relationships:  What if You Still Love Them?</title>
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		<title>By: R.H.</title>
		<link>http://receivehealing.com/blog/207/abusive-relationships-what-if-you-still-love-them/comment-page-1/#comment-3880</link>
		<dc:creator>R.H.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2008 17:21:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>For major decisions in your personal situation, you would need to seek help from a pastor or counselor locally; it is not possible for us to know and answer all the details of your situation.  Much depends on the level of harm taking place.  Also, controlling relationships are so complex, the person being harmed often does not fully understand all the feelings of his or her own heart.  Someone locally who is trained in these matters can listen to the details and usually see more clearly what is taking place than the person who is suffering.  Since they work with people in all different levels of controlling relationships, they could tell you what actions are most helpful or not helpful.  Lastly, whatever help the suffering person in a controlling relationship seeks, it needs to be done in a way that will not result in any harm or abuse to them by the controlling person.  ReceiveHealing.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For major decisions in your personal situation, you would need to seek help from a pastor or counselor locally; it is not possible for us to know and answer all the details of your situation.  Much depends on the level of harm taking place.  Also, controlling relationships are so complex, the person being harmed often does not fully understand all the feelings of his or her own heart.  Someone locally who is trained in these matters can listen to the details and usually see more clearly what is taking place than the person who is suffering.  Since they work with people in all different levels of controlling relationships, they could tell you what actions are most helpful or not helpful.  Lastly, whatever help the suffering person in a controlling relationship seeks, it needs to be done in a way that will not result in any harm or abuse to them by the controlling person.  ReceiveHealing.com</p>
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		<title>By: haregua</title>
		<link>http://receivehealing.com/blog/207/abusive-relationships-what-if-you-still-love-them/comment-page-1/#comment-3846</link>
		<dc:creator>haregua</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Nov 2008 13:05:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hello i love the message God bless you. i want to ask whether this things work for marriage because God says he does not want us to get divorced.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hello i love the message God bless you. i want to ask whether this things work for marriage because God says he does not want us to get divorced.</p>
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