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		<title>Improve Your Body’s Defense Against Flu &amp; Other Infections</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2012 21:31:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Below are a variety of favorite suggestions by well-known physicians for natural ways to optimize your body's natural health defenses through supplements and some common health practices...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;"><em>Below are a variety of favorite suggestions by well-known physicians for natural ways to optimize your body&#8217;s natural health defenses through supplements and some common health practices. </em></span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Dr. Holtorf  of the Holtorf Medical Group posted a question and answer session online from his interview with an international news network.  Here is a quote from his suggestions to prevent viruses and infections. Use the link in the footnote to read the full article.</span></strong></p>
<blockquote><p>Natural ways to prevent an infection include vitamin D 5000-15,000 per day (best to check levels), zinc 50 mg/day, vitamin C 3000 mg/day, licorice root extract and miataki mushroom D-fraction. There are good combination products available (Virunex, Immunostim). Nasal colloidal silver can be very effective. It is very safe, and no virus has ever been shown to develop resistance to silver. (1)</p></blockquote>
<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Dr. Joseph Mercola is also a strong advocate of optimizing your vitamin D levels, not just for flu prevention but daily health. It is also one of the least expensive ways to be proactive.</span></strong></p>
<p>He makes 2 strong statements advocating vitamin D:</p>
<blockquote><p>-Optimizing your vitamin D levels is the absolute best strategy for avoiding infections of all kinds.<br />
-Vitamin D deficiency is the most likely true culprit behind seasonal flu, not the flu virus itself. (2)</p></blockquote>
<p>Here are his 2 suggested standards for vitamin D supplements:<img title="More..." src="http://receivehealing.com/blog/wp-includes/js/tinymce/plugins/wordpress/img/trans.gif" alt="" /><span id="more-2144"></span></p>
<blockquote><p>1. He strongly suggests that you have your vitamin D levels monitored to confirm that they are at a therapeutic level, which is between 50-65 ng/ml.<br />
2. If you are coming down with flu-like symptoms and have not been on vitamin D, take doses of 50,000 units a day for three days to treat acute infection. (2) [Notice this amount is for acute infection. Dr. Cannell says 5,000 units per day is an appropriate amount to maintain good health.]</p></blockquote>
<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Here are 8 Other Daily Health Practices to Build a Strong Immune System and Prevent the Flu. These are excerpts from Dr. Mercola&#8217;s newsletter. See the footnote for the full article.</span></strong></p>
<blockquote><p><span style="color: #0000ff;">Avoid sugar and processed foods-</span>  Sugar decreases the function of your immune system almost immediately.<br />
<span style="color: #0000ff;">Get sufficient rest.<br />
</span><span style="color: #0000ff;">Effectively address stress.<br />
</span><span style="color: #0000ff;">Exercise-</span>  Exercise increases your circulation and blood flow throughout your body. When the parts of your immune system have better circulated, your immune system has a better chance of stopping an illness before it spreads<br />
<span style="color: #0000ff;">Take a good source of animal-based omega-3 essential fats-</span>  Dr. Mercola prefers krill oil. It is also vitally important to avoid damaged omega-6 oils like the trans fats found in most processed foods.<br />
Wash your hands-  Use a simple chemical-free soap.<br />
<span style="color: #0000ff;">Eat garlic regularly-</span>  Garlic works like a broad-spectrum antibiotic against bacteria, virus, and protozoa in the body.<br />
<span style="color: #0000ff;">Avoid hospitals and vaccines-</span>  Dr. Mercola recommends staying away from hospitals unless you&#8217;re having an emergency during this flu season. (2)</p></blockquote>
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<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Here are a couple of video clipe by other notable doctors on the benefits of increasing your vitamin D for flu prevention.</span></strong></p>
<p>Use this link to hear Dr. Joe Prendergast explain <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xdLNMEXWTL8&amp;feature=related" target="_blank">why vitamin D is better than any vaccine and increases the immune system by 3-5 times </a>as well as share testimonials of its amazing effect in reducing cancer.</p>
<p>Use this link to hear Dr. John Cannell on <a href="http://dprogram.net/2009/07/28/video-dr-john-cannell-on-vitamin-d-and-swine-flu/" target="_blank">how 5000 units of vitamin D a day improves health, fight flu viruses</a>, and destroy even encapsulated virus cells, bacteria, and fungus.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">You may also want to check these prior posts on Building Your Immune System and Flu Prevention.</span></strong></p>
<p><a href="http://receivehealing.com/blog/400/immune-system-boosters/" target="_blank">Immune System Boosters</a> &#8211; 7 ways to boost your immune system</p>
<p><a href="http://receivehealing.com/blog/119/flu-prevention/" target="_blank">Flu Prevention</a> &#8211; Virus blocker we use and other site&#8217;s suggestions.</p>
<p><a href="http://receivehealing.com/blog/564/superfoods-boost-overall-health/" target="_blank">Superfoods Boost Overall Health</a> &#8211; Improve your health for a few dollars a day be adding superfoods into your diet.</p>
<p><em>1. Dr. Kent Holtorf&#8217;s <a href="http://www.wral.com/news/local/story/5034330/#" target="_blank">questions and answer on swine flu</a>. <br />
2. Dr. Mercola&#8217;s <a href="http://articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2009/10/06/Why-You-Should-NOT-Vaccinate-Your-Children-Against-the-Flu-This-Season.aspx#" target="_blank">flu prevention methods</a>.  </em></p>
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		<title>Flu Prevention</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Jan 2012 11:00:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>R.H.</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As the fall and winter seasons approach, the flu virus is something we all desire to avoid. Let's cover a new virus blocker product as well as some immune system boosters.  New natural virus blockers are an effective way to prevent the flu from taking hold.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong><em>During the winter season, the flu virus is something we all desire to avoid. Let&#8217;s cover a virus blocker product as well as some immune system boosters.</em></strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong>Natural virus blockers are an effective way to prevent the flu from taking hold.</strong></span></p>
<p>Last winter, when the some severe flu strains were taking over large regions of the US, we had stayed pretty flu free all season. Toward the end of the season, I evidently caught the strain from a coughing cashier and stopped by the health food store to buy extra vitamin C and see what else they had available. They had a huge display of a product called, Blockade. The store reps said that they had been selling a good deal of the product and people were bringing back good reports, so I decided to give it a try. If you recall, last winter&#8217;s strain of flu was holding on for 2-3 weeks at a time. I was significantly better in 24 hrs. and completely over it within 48 hrs.</p>
<p><span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong>Blockade is an all herbal virus blocker.</strong></span></p>
<p>According to the write-up, viruses reproduce in the human body after entering human cells, as opposed to infections in the blood stream which can be treated with antibiotics. Since viruses reproduce within the cells, antibiotics do not work on them. The bioactives in Blockade coat the viruses and prevent them from attaching to and entering human cells. Since the viruses cannot reproduce, the illness does not progress. Laboratory studies have shown a 100% success rate in keeping the flu virus from entering cells. <span id="more-119"></span>Blockade is sold as lozenges. I believe that I paid about $6 for a pack of 7 lozenges. A pack of 14 is also available. It is very important to follow the directions; the lozenges are <span style="text-decoration: underline;">not </span><span style="text-decoration: underline;">to be chewed </span>or dissolved like a cough drop. You are to <span style="text-decoration: underline;">hold the lozenge under your tongue</span> and let it dissolve all the way so it is absorbed immediately into your bloodstream, rather than going through your digestive system. If you have taken many health food supplements, you will be familiar with doing the same thing with liquid vitamins.</p>
<p>We found Blockade at our local Vitamin Shoppe (chain store); my relatives bought it at their local health food store. You can also find it at many places online by searching Blockade with Virabloc.   GNC has also started carrying their own version of a virus blocker, which we have found to be very effective.</p>
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<p><span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong>Echinacea is often used as an immune system booster.</strong></span></p>
<p>Studies show it can lessen the duration and severity of a cold, especially if taken as soon as the cold begins to develop. In capsule form, they recommend 900 mg to 4.5 grams per day. In liquid extract, 3-9 milliliters is recommended. People allergic to ragweed may be allergic to Echinacea. (GreenWise, Dec 04, p. 11)</p>
<p><span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong>Elderberry has been used as a cold and flu remedy for centuries.</strong></span></p>
<p>One study found that people taking elderberry recovered from the flu in 3 days as opposed to 6 without it. They recommend 3 t. per day of extract or 500 mg capsule 3 times a day. <a href="http://www.prevention.com/cda/article/beat-the-flu/da9f50d1fa803110VgnVCM10000013281eac____/health/natural.remedies/herbal.remedies/" target="_blank">Prevention.com </a></p>
<p><span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong><a href="http://www.webmd.com/cold-and-flu/cold-guide/12-tips-prevent-cold-flu" target="_blank">WebMD</a> has a list of 12 simple lifestyle changes to avoid flu and/or speed recovery.</strong> </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong>Ginger Tea is said to bring relief from fever and chills.</strong></span></p>
<p>Fever and head congestion can be relieved by making a tea of 1/3 t. of powdered ginger into a cup of hot water. (GreenWise, Dec 04, p. 11) I, personally, would mix honey into that to make it more flavorful.</p>
<p><span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong>Other Sites of Interest for Natural Flu Prevention-</strong></span></p>
<p>You can find many sites for natural flu prevention. Two others I came across were <a href="http://www.bodyandfitness.com/Information/Health/cold.htm" target="_blank">Body and Fitness</a> and<br />
<a href="http://www.organicnutrition.co.uk/articles/colds.htm" target="_blank">Organic Nutrition</a>, both of which list herbs for various cold and flu prevention or symptoms.</p>
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		<title>Allowing the New Year to be New Part 2</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Jan 2012 11:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you desire to see a better life in the New Year? Most of us do. To experience a better life, you play a major part by making 6 vital decisions that will allow your New Year to be new...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='series_toc'><h3>Table of contents for Allowing the New Year to be New</h3><ol><li><a href='http://receivehealing.com/blog/295/allowing-the-new-year-to-be-new/' title='Allowing the New Year to be New Part 1'>Allowing the New Year to be New Part 1</a></li><li>Allowing the New Year to be New Part 2</li></ol></div> <p>Do you desire life to be better in the New Year?  Most of us do!  To experience a better life this year, you play a major part by making 6 vital decisions that will allow your New Year to be new.  This is Part 2 of this post.  If you missed the 3 decisions in Part 1, please use the series link above to read Part 1 first.</p>
<p>Now let&#8217;s cover the <span style="text-decoration: underline;">last 3</span> <span style="text-decoration: underline;">vital decisions to allow your New Year to be new!</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Live with expectancy for a better future.</span></strong></p>
<p>In this quote from Philippians 3:13,14, God tells us to forget the past and look toward a better future.</p>
<blockquote><p>This one thing I do, forgetting what is behind me, but straining every nerve toward that which lies ahead, I am ever pressing on toward the goal, for the prize of the high purpose of God. (BBE, MNT)</p></blockquote>
<p>I particularly like this translation of &#8220;straining with every nerve&#8221; toward to high purposes of God. For you to take advantage of living life in this new year, not only forget the past, but honestly put your energy into keeping focused on experiencing the best life possible, the &#8220;high purposes&#8221; of God for your life. The very next sentence in this discourse says, &#8220;All of us who are mature should take such a view of things (Phil. 3:15).&#8221; It is true. Maturity teaches us to forget the failures and bad experiences of the past and to look with expectancy<span id="more-2135"></span><img title="More..." src="http://receivehealing.com/blog/wp-includes/js/tinymce/plugins/wordpress/img/trans.gif" alt="" /> for a better future.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Keep in focus that God has in mind even better for you than you can imagine for yourself.</span></strong></p>
<p>This is a favorite quote I speak over my life.</p>
<blockquote><p>To Him who by His power that is at work within us, is able to carry out His purpose and do superabundantly, far over and above all that we dare ask or think-infinitely beyond our highest prayers, desires, thoughts, hopes or dreams. Eph. 3:20 Amp</p></blockquote>
<p>Along the same line of thought is the Law of Attraction, a philosophy based on the scriptural concept of &#8220;according to your faith it will be done to you.&#8221; It is essential for you to <span style="text-decoration: underline;">expect</span> a better year for you to <span style="text-decoration: underline;">experience</span> the &#8220;new&#8221; that you desire in this year. When you live in a state of expectancy, your positive attitude will improve the way people respond to you. When you envision a better life for yourself, your mind will be more creative in possibilities to reach your goals. This type of focus then causes your spirit to become aware of right choices, paths, opportunities that you would have otherwise missed if you were not living in expectancy.</p>
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<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Last, make new progress in your spiritual life.</span></strong></p>
<p>We are spiritual beings in a physical body. Our spirits were created to live in a loving relationship with our Creator, God. The health of one&#8217;s spirit affects every aspect of life. Making a decision to learn to live in a loving relationship with God if you have not already done so, or to build on the one you already have, will only prove to bring new, wonderful experiences during the gift of life in this new year. God expresses this thought in 2 Corinthians 5:17,</p>
<blockquote><p>Therefore, if any one is in union with Christ, he is a new being! His old life has passed away; a new life has begun! (TCNT)</p></blockquote>
<p>God has granted you the gift of a new year to live life. Know Him in increasing measure. Allow God to live this life with you as both of you relish in a new life in this new year!</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2012 11:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A new year brings most of us the hope of starting over. We desire to see life be better in various areas of our lives during the new year. To start over, to experience a better life, make the decision to allow your year to be new. First, forgive yourself of ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='series_toc'><h3>Table of contents for Allowing the New Year to be New</h3><ol><li>Allowing the New Year to be New Part 1</li><li><a href='http://receivehealing.com/blog/2135/allowing-the-new-year-to-be-new-part-2/' title='Allowing the New Year to be New Part 2'>Allowing the New Year to be New Part 2</a></li></ol></div> <p>A new year brings most of us the hope of starting over. We desire to see life be better in various areas of our lives during the new year. To start over, to experience a better life, <span style="color: #000000;">make the decision to allow your year to be new.  <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Let&#8217;s cover 6 vital decisions to allow your year to be new</span>!  <em>(3 decisions in this post, 3 decisions in Part 2)</em></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong>First, forgive yourself of past mistakes.</strong></span></p>
<p>Self-condemnation has no benefit. Even God desires us to live without the weight of condemnation. Romans 8:1,2 says that there is no condemnation for those who live in Jesus because God&#8217;s Spirit has freed them from the laws (the control, the results) of sin and death.</p>
<p><span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong>Second, forgive others.</strong></span></p>
<p>Remember, if you&#8217;ve followed the posts this past year, forgiveness does not involve allowing people to mistreat you. There is a difference between forgiveness and reconciliation. For reconciliation to take place<span id="more-295"></span>, it involves both people being willing to have resolution; in many situations, this is impossible. However, forgiveness takes place in your own heart and frees you from being emotionally tied to that person and bad experience for the rest of your life. For a full discussion on this topic, read the post, <a href="http://receivehealing.com/blog/107/forgiveness-or-reconciliation-understanding-the-difference/" target="_blank">Forgiveness or Reconciliation: Understanding the Difference</a>.</p>
<p><span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong>Third, forget what God forgets.</strong></span></p>
<p>That may sound strange to someone who, at first thought, believes that God does not forget. Unlike people, God&#8217;s forgetfulness is not due to insufficient memory capability; He chooses to forget certain things. God counsels us to be like Him and do the same thing with emotional baggage or bad past experiences. Yes, be reconciled with those who hurt you if possible. Yes, apologize to someone you have offended if possible. But for negative experiences that can never be resolved or undone, it is time to forget.</p>
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<p>I heard a great illustration about forgetfulness. I heard Kenneth Copeland talk about a past experience in which he felt self-condemnation. God spoke to his heart and said, &#8220;I told you in my Word to forget that.&#8221; When Kenneth asked God about why He chooses forget our failures, God spoke to his spirit, &#8220;Do you want to remember the bad about your children?&#8221; Out of His love for us, so the relationship is reconciled between us and Him, God chooses to forget our failures. As this next quote below explains, we, too, need only to hold to anything beneficial we may have learned from the experience, but then let it go and move on.</p>
<p><em>(The last 3 vital decisions for making your New Year new are in Part 2 of this post.)</em></p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Jan 2012 11:00:24 +0000</pubDate>
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<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Busyness of life demands a well-thought out plan to achieve your life goals.</span></strong></p>
<p>During the past year, I found myself pulled in numerous directions by unavoidable responsibilities, such as adding new parts to one of our businesses, another family member in the household, attending to needs of aging relatives. The use of my time was not always a matter of choice. When this year began, I realized that I needed to refocus with a new, clear cut “life plan” if I was going to achieve my own goals instead of just maintaining in the face of these new responsibilities. Calling to memory last year’s posts on Dawna Markova’s book, I knew I needed to make sure I was “living on purpose” and daily creating the environment needed to live out those purposes. (If you missed those 2 posts, use the links here. <a href="http://receivehealing.com/blog/743/living-with-purpose-and-living-your-purpose/ " target="_blank">Living with Purpose and Living Your Purpose</a> and <a title="Permanent Link: Creating Your Purposeful Life Environment" rel="bookmark" href="http://receivehealing.com/blog/751/creating-your-purposeful-life-environment/">Creating Your Purposeful Life Environment</a>) In the same way, it is essential for each of you <span id="more-1214"></span>to make a clear cut life plan now, early in the year, to ensure that you stay on a progressive track with all of your goals.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Why Bother?</span></strong></p>
<p>Because a clear cut life plan is a form of taking control of your life! Someone said to me the other day something along the lines of “Why bother? I know what I want.” Here is the reason &#8212; without a detailed plan for your life, the stresses of life distract you. Your focus gets pulled to the issues taking place. Your energies get poured into putting out fires. A detailed life plan in writing which you can skim over every morning keeps you focused on what you need to do the present day, week, and month to accomplish your goals for the year. Secondly, as with the Law of Attraction, making yourself see or “visualize” those goals every morning creates a vital alertness in your mind to any options/opportunities that come up in a day are helpful in achieving those goals.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">A Sample Plan</span></strong></p>
<p>Here is a sample of the categories I used to make my life plan. Yours may vary but you can see that the multiple categories help me make thorough progress in all the various aspects of my life. The details under each of my categories are not listed for privacy purposes, but generally I have about a dozen goals under each category:</p>
<blockquote><p><span style="color: #0000ff;">Business Goals</span> (This included projected statistics as well as desired projects)</p>
<p><span style="color: #0000ff;">Personal Growth</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #0000ff;">Spiritual Growth</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #0000ff;">Household Goals</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #0000ff;">Charitable Goals</span></p></blockquote>
<p>I encourage you to go ahead this week and make a life plan. Life goes by too fast to wait! Don’t let another year slip by and your goals be lost in the midst of life’s busyness. <span style="text-decoration: underline;">With a life plan, you can stay focused, become alert to daily opportunities, and make your dreams realities</span>!<br />
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		<title>A Year of Favor</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Jan 2012 11:00:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Attracting the favor you need and desire in your life this year is contingent upon believing you will receive it. Though the “Law of Attraction” may be a contemporary term, the concept is an ageless one. We have discussed at times in the past the concept of the Law of Attraction, of believing that good will come to you and visualizing it... A few months ago, I was doing a word study on the concept of favor, as I was in need of favor during an upcoming business transaction... 
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<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Attracting the favor you need and desire in your life this year is contingent upon believing you will receive it.</span></strong></p>
<p>Though the “Law of Attraction” may be a contemporary term, the concept is an ageless one. We have discussed at times in the past the concept of the Law of Attraction, of believing that good will come to you and visualizing it. God Himself, in His covenant with Abraham, asked him to believe for the fulfillment of Abraham’s “impossible” dream for a son when Sarah was over 75 and to visualize the stars in the sky as being his numerous descendents. (See the post <a href="http://receivehealing.com/blog/352/visualizing-your-dreams/" target="_blank">Visualizing Your Dreams</a>)</p>
<p>A few months ago, I was doing a word study on the concept of favor, as I was in need of favor during an upcoming business transaction. I was truly amazed at how frequently favor is promised by God and how much it is a part of His covenant with mankind.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">I want each of you to believe this year for the favor you both need and desire from your relationships/interactions with God and people.</span></strong></p>
<p>As you read through the quotes below, visualize the favor spoken of as being yours. Put your name into the quotes. Begin the year believing that you already have the favor of God and will grow in your favor with people, regardless of the circumstance. Continue throughout this year to believe and visualize that you are a person of favor and receive the favor that is yours!</p>
<blockquote><p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">I will look on you with favor</span> and make you fruitful and increase your numbers, and <span style="text-decoration: underline;">I will keep my covenant with you</span>. Le 26:9</p>
<p>O Lord, let your ear be attentive to the prayer of this your servant…G<span style="text-decoration: underline;">ive your servant success today by granting him favor in the presence of this man</span>. Ne 1:11</p>
<p>You will arise and have compassion, for <span style="text-decoration: underline;">it is time to show favor to her</span>; the appointed time has come. Ps 102:13</p>
<p>Now <span style="text-decoration: underline;">God had caused the official to show favor and sympathy to him</span>. Da 1:9<span id="more-1199"></span></p>
<p>God says, &#8220;In the time of my favor I heard you, in the day of salvation I helped you.&#8221; <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Now is the time of God&#8217;s favor, now is the day of salvation</span>. 2Co 6:2 <em>[Remember the Hebrew term for salvation includes deliverance, aid, victory, prosperity, health, and welfare; the Greek term includes rescue, safety (physically or morally), preservation, healing, and soundness.]</em></p>
<p>…Praising God and <span style="text-decoration: underline;">enjoying the favor of all the people</span>. Ac 2:47</p>
<p>A good person obtains favor from the LORD. Pr 12:2</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">You will win favor and a good name in the sight of God and man</span>. Pr 3:4</p>
<p>&#8230;Proclaim the year of the LORD&#8217;s favor. Isa 61:2</p>
<p>For surely, O LORD, you bless the righteous; <span style="text-decoration: underline;">you surround them with your favor as with a shield</span>. Ps 5:12</p>
<p>He prays to God and <span style="text-decoration: underline;">finds favor</span> with Him… he <span style="text-decoration: underline;">is restored</span> by God… Job 33:26</p>
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<p>…<span style="text-decoration: underline;">God’s favor lasts a lifetime</span>. Ps 30:5</p>
<p>The LORD bestows favor and honor; no good thing does He withhold… Ps 84:11</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">She won the favor of everyone</span> who saw her. Es 2:15</p>
<p>Then he sought the LORD&#8217;s favor, and the LORD listened to him, for God saw how severely the king was oppressing them. 2Ki 13:4</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">The LORD was with him; He showed him kindness and granted him favor</span>. Ge 39:21</p>
<p>You have said, “I know you by name and yo<span style="text-decoration: underline;">u have found favor with Me</span>.” Ex 33:12</p>
<p>And the boy continued <span style="text-decoration: underline;">to grow… in favor with the LORD and with men</span>. 1Sa 2:26</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Blessing for Your New Year!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Dec 2011 00:03:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I would like to speak a blessing of abundance over your lives as we come into this New Year. ReceiveHealing.com was developed and exists solely for the purpose of bringing physical, emotional, and spiritual healing to people’s lives. We trust you have benefited in a variety of ways this past year. May your life be [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">I would like to speak a blessing of abundance over your lives </span></strong>as we come into this New Year. ReceiveHealing.com was developed and exists solely for the purpose of bringing physical, emotional, and spiritual healing to people’s lives. We trust you have benefited in a variety of ways this past year.</p>
<p>May your life be filled with the <span style="text-decoration: underline;">abundance and peace</span> God desires for you, containing all that is beautiful, best, bountiful, cheerful, good, joyful, loving, prosperous, and wealthy [Hebrew and Greek definitions of abundance], as well as existing in a state of safety, happiness, good health, friendship, rest, and wholeness so that <span style="text-decoration: underline;">all is well in your life</span> [Hebrew and Greek definitions of peace].</p>
<p>May you be comforted from all past and present sorrows. May you receive <span style="text-decoration: underline;">compassion</span> as freely as you have shown it. May all your <span style="text-decoration: underline;">fears be replaced with faith</span> and peace. May you <span style="text-decoration: underline;">forgive</span> those who have harmed you in the past so that you are released to <span style="text-decoration: underline;">reach your future goals</span> and desires. May the <span style="text-decoration: underline;">greater understanding of God’s love for you</span> which you have gained this year be used as an unshakeable basis for your <span style="text-decoration: underline;">self worth</span> and foundation for your life. May all your <span style="text-decoration: underline;">relationships be healthy</span>, rewarding, and free from resentment. May the <span style="text-decoration: underline;">voice of God be clear</span> in your spirit so that your words and <span style="text-decoration: underline;">decisions flow from His wisdom</span>, bringing <span style="text-decoration: underline;">healing</span> and <span style="text-decoration: underline;">wholeness</span> to every aspect of your life.</p>
<p>Have a very blessed and happy New Year!</p>
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		<title>Minimize Holiday Stress with Relatives</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Dec 2011 11:00:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here’s a collection of tips from 3 different authors to reduce relational stresses in your holiday family gatherings which should bring you immediate benefit...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Want to reduce stresses with relatives in your holiday family gatherings?  Here’s a collection of tips from 3 different authors to tell you how.</span></strong></p>
<p><em></em><em>(This is one of the classic holiday “help” articles– a good reminder for each of us each Christmas/New Year’s season.) </em></p>
<p><span style="color: #0000ff;">These tips by Connie Ragen Green are excerpts from her holiday stress article, Dealing With The Three Types of Difficult People. Use the link in the footnotes to read her full article.</span></p>
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<li>The person who won’t stop talking -The best thing you can do for this person is to just listen. See if there are others who will share this listening with you. Try asking them about something that you are also interested in.</li>
<li>The person who has to be right -The best way to handle this person is to praise them. They will beam like a young child when you compliment them.</li>
<li>The person who has to be the center of attention &#8211; Ask their opinion on something. They will enjoy the chance to tell you what they think and may even have some great ideas.</li>
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<p><span style="color: #0000ff;">These tips to minimize your stress while spending holidays with the relatives are excerpts from E.K. Tirado’s article, Three Ways to Cope with Difficult Relatives During the Holidays. Use the link in the footnotes to read the full article.</span></p>
<blockquote><p>1) Change what you can, and do not fret about what you can’t change. Too many times the cause of our stress derives from our need to change people<span id="more-1653"></span>. Accept the fact that you cannot control other peoples’ actions, but you can control how you react to them. Don’t come to any event with unrealistic expectations.</p>
<p>2) Stay close to the “normal” family member. There is often one family member who you can actually hold an intelligent conversation with…someone you feel pretty good being around. My advice: Hang around with this family member…..often. Finds ways to spend time with that person whether it’s taking a post-meal walk around the neighborhood, or playing a game (or two or three) of checkers. If you have absolutely NO “normal” family members, then invite a “normal” person to attend an occasion with you.</p>
<p>3) Give yourself an important job. “Remove” yourself from the situation by giving yourself an important job. For example,decide that this year you will be the official family photographer. If you’re not much of a photographer, then give yourself another important job like tending to the turkey, making fancy swans with the table napkins, running to the store for last minute food items, Do whatever it is you have to do to keep busy, while still continuing to interact with family.</p>
<p>4) Lastly, you simply have to accept the fact that you don’t have the ability to change people, they must change themselves. The one person you can change is yourself. You can change how you react to things, how you view things, and how you ultimately deal with things.</p></blockquote>
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<p><span style="color: #0000ff;">Dealing with Difficult Relatives for the Holidays by Kate Zabriskie, Business Training Works, Inc., offers these tips to reduce conflicts with your relatives. These are only excerpts. Use the link in the footnotes to read her full article.</span></p>
<blockquote><p>1. Whatever the reason is that you are with your holiday crew, you are not obligated to call up feelings you don’t have.</p>
<p>2. Be civil no matter what. The last thing you want is for your negative reaction to overshadow the initial offense.</p>
<p>3. Figure out a couple of ways that you might rein in your reaction ahead of time. [Remember past irritations or confrontations by your relatives and come up with a plan of action or response to keep yourself calm, change the subject, and divert the attention.]</p>
<p>4. Consider journaling [rather than venting your feelings to your friends.]</p>
<p>5. Downtime is the smell of opportunity to difficult relatives. Your holidays will run more smoothly if there are plenty of activities to fill gaps. [games, walks, etc.]</p>
<p>6. Plan an entry and exit time, as well as a date for yourself, if you are going to someone else’s house. Do the same if a group is coming to yours. For example, “Bob and I would like you to come for Thanksgiving. If you could arrive between 11:00 and noon on Thursday that would give us time to get everything ready for you. We’ve also planned a big breakfast for Friday before everyone leaves.</p>
<p>7. Think about inviting more people to your holiday. When there are fifty people in attendance, it is much more difficult for a diva to be a diva.</p>
<p>8. Focus on the kids. Babies and little kids don’t fully understand weird family dynamics. Most of the time, discussions about babies are usually fairly benign.</p>
<p>9. Focus on the less fortunate. If, for example, at Thanksgiving everyone brings a gift for Toys for Tots or some other charity group, part of your discussion will naturally revolve around that.</p></blockquote>
<p><em>Use these links to read the full articles by these authors:</em></p>
<p><a href="http://ezinearticles.com/?Dealing-With-Difficult-Relatives-at-Holiday-Time---Dealing-With-The-Three-Types-of-Difficult-People&amp;id=846772" target="_blank"><em>Dealing with 3 Types of Difficult People at Holiday Time</em></a><em>, Connie Ragen Green</em></p>
<p><a href="http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/77685/three_ways_to_cope_with_difficult_relatives.html?page=3&amp;cat=74" target="_blank"><em>Three Ways to Cope with Difficult Relatives During the Holidays</em></a><em>, E.K. Tirado</em></p>
<p><a href="http://www.sideroad.com/Family_Life/holiday-family-stress.html" target="_blank"><em>Dealing with Difficult Relatives for the Holidays</em></a><em>, Kate Zabriskie, Business Training Works, Inc.</em></p>
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		<title>Enjoying Your Holidays</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Dec 2011 10:00:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do holiday family gatherings bring joy or difficult memories and painful feelings? I came across a helpful article by fellow SelfGrowth.com author Laurie McAnaugh; here are some excerpts from it to help you overcome the negativity and enjoy your holiday experience. Use the links in the footnotes to read her full article.  Ms. McAnaugh discusses that if holidays are emotionally draining to you...
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong>Do holiday family gatherings bring joy or difficult memories and painful feelings?</strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">I came across a helpful article by fellow SelfGrowth.com author Laurie McAnaugh; here are some excerpts from it to help you overcome the negativity and enjoy your holiday experience. <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Use the links in the footnotes to read her full article</span>.  <em><span style="color: #0000ff;">(This is one of the classic holiday “help” articles– a good reminder for each of us each Christmas/New Year’s season.)</span></em></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Ms. McAnaugh discusses that if holidays are emotionally draining to you rather than a time to enjoy remembrances of all you have to be thankful for, you may need to ask yourself the following questions:</p>
<blockquote style="text-align: left;"><p>-Why do I behave that way when I&#8217;m around certain members of my family?</p>
<p>-I don&#8217;t always like who I am when I am around that person.</p>
<p>-What is it about that person that they constantly say things that hurt my feelings?</p>
<p>-What is it about me that I allow that person to get under my skin?</p></blockquote>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong>If the holidays cause you to have the above thoughts, Ms. McAnaugh encourages you to ponder these questions:</strong></span></p>
<blockquote style="text-align: left;"><p>-How would it feel to spend the holidays with each of your family members and still feel good about yourself,<span id="more-1156"></span> during and after the experience?</p>
<p>-How would it feel to imagine a solid bubble around yourself that protects you from any insult or negative words?</p>
<p>-How would it feel to believe so strongly in your positive contribution to the world that you simply have no need to react at all to anything anyone says or thinks about you?</p></blockquote>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">This is a great quote from Laurie on having true power during your holiday interactions:</span></strong></p>
<blockquote style="text-align: left;"><p>When we focus our energy on someone else&#8217;s choices…we let them affect us in ways that cause us frustration, guilt and defensiveness. If we could consider that this person is doing the best they can with the tools they have…and their choices are a reflection on them…it <span style="text-decoration: underline;">would remind us that how we react to others is a choice that only we can make</span>. As much as we want to believe that controlling the actions of others would make our lives easier, in fact it&#8217;s really the other way around. Being in control of our own actions and most of all, reactions, is a characteristic of true power.</p></blockquote>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Rather than focusing on the words and actions of others, Ms. McAnaugh admonishes us to focus on what we can control—our own behavior and being who we want to be.</span></strong></p>
<blockquote style="text-align: left;"><p>It should be noted, when interacting with others, it&#8217;s always necessary to take responsibility for our own behavior. Learning to step away from a situation to ask ourselves, &#8220;Is this who I want to be?&#8230;Am I acting out of guilt, jealousy or an unnecessary need to be understood by others?&#8221; When we step away to observe our own actions, it is…a time to own it, fix it and then move on. <span style="text-decoration: underline;">There&#8217;s nothing more powerful then saying, &#8220;That behavior and way of thinking is not in line with who I want to be. I know I can do be</span>tter.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p style="text-align: left;">Laurie concludes her article with the well stated point that when we decide that our own positive opinion of ourselves is the most important one, we are less affected by others’ opinions and can simply ignore others’ negativity.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Click Here to Read Laurie&#8217;s Full Article: <a href="http://pro.netatlantic.com/t/17096594/67166387/91505/0/" target="_blank">Learning to Enjoy The Holidays No Matter Where You Are</a> <br />
<em>Laurie McAnaugh is the founder of Access Your Power and achieves her mission through teaching workshops, consulting privately with clients and presenting to groups nationwide.  Her website is http://www.choosetobepowerful.com</em></p>
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		<title>8 Quick Tips to Reclaim Your Christmas Spirit</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Feeling like Ebenezer Scrooge? It’s time to take in a few tips and reclaim your Christmas Spirit! I came across some good, brief tips to de-stress your holiday from an article by...
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Feeling like Ebenezer Scrooge? It’s time to take in a few tips and reclaim your Christmas Spirit!</span></strong></p>
<p>I came across some good, brief tips to de-stress your holiday from an article by blog author Sara Ananya Shah. These are only summaries. Please use the link below to read her full article.  <em><span style="color: #0000ff;">(This is one of the classic holiday “help” articles– a good reminder for each of us each Christmas/New Year’s season.)</span></em></p>
<blockquote><p>1. <span style="color: #0000ff;">Shop at home -</span> Shop online as much as possible. The selection is better and many retailers offer free shipping for the holidays.</p>
<p>2. <span style="color: #0000ff;">Shop with friends -</span> If you must go out shopping, take a friend along and then relax together afterward with a cup of coffee or cocoa.</p>
<p>3. <span style="color: #0000ff;">Have friends and relatives –</span> If you have a dinner with relatives that you dread, invite a friend along, or a specific friendlier relative.</p>
<p>4. <span style="color: #0000ff;">Break down chores –</span> For example, don’t do Christmas dinner all at once. [Freeze ahead or] Do as much as possible the day before. If you write out Christmas cards, do a few each night at bedtime.</p>
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<p>5. <span style="color: #0000ff;">Make due dates –</span> Plan to get your goals done by December 22nd so you can have some time to relax.</p>
<p>6. <span style="color: #0000ff;">Exercise –</span> A 20 minute walk will immediately lift your mood and reduce stress hormones.</p>
<p>7. <span style="color: #0000ff;">Don’t overeat –</span> You’ll feel happier and healthier.</p>
<p>8. <span style="color: #0000ff;">Get “ME” time –</span> Take at least 15 minutes a day to listen to relaxing music, walk, or something else that will make you happy.</p></blockquote>
<p><em>Click here to read the full article by Sara Ananya Shah, </em><a href="http://ezinearticles.com/?Holiday-Stress-Relief:-Tips-To-Reclaim-Your-Christmas-Spirit&amp;id=5521932" target="_blank"><em>Holiday Stress Relief: Tips to Reclaim Your Christmas Spirit</em></a><em>. Ms. Shah is author of the parenting blog, Loving Your Child.</em></p>
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