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		<title>Allowing the New Year to be New Part 2</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Jan 2012 11:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>R.H.</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you desire to see a better life in the New Year? Most of us do. To experience a better life, you play a major part by making 6 vital decisions that will allow your New Year to be new...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='series_toc'><h3>Table of contents for Allowing the New Year to be New</h3><ol><li><a href='http://receivehealing.com/blog/295/allowing-the-new-year-to-be-new/' title='Allowing the New Year to be New Part 1'>Allowing the New Year to be New Part 1</a></li><li>Allowing the New Year to be New Part 2</li></ol></div> <p>Do you desire life to be better in the New Year?  Most of us do!  To experience a better life this year, you play a major part by making 6 vital decisions that will allow your New Year to be new.  This is Part 2 of this post.  If you missed the 3 decisions in Part 1, please use the series link above to read Part 1 first.</p>
<p>Now let&#8217;s cover the <span style="text-decoration: underline;">last 3</span> <span style="text-decoration: underline;">vital decisions to allow your New Year to be new!</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Live with expectancy for a better future.</span></strong></p>
<p>In this quote from Philippians 3:13,14, God tells us to forget the past and look toward a better future.</p>
<blockquote><p>This one thing I do, forgetting what is behind me, but straining every nerve toward that which lies ahead, I am ever pressing on toward the goal, for the prize of the high purpose of God. (BBE, MNT)</p></blockquote>
<p>I particularly like this translation of &#8220;straining with every nerve&#8221; toward to high purposes of God. For you to take advantage of living life in this new year, not only forget the past, but honestly put your energy into keeping focused on experiencing the best life possible, the &#8220;high purposes&#8221; of God for your life. The very next sentence in this discourse says, &#8220;All of us who are mature should take such a view of things (Phil. 3:15).&#8221; It is true. Maturity teaches us to forget the failures and bad experiences of the past and to look with expectancy<span id="more-2135"></span><img title="More..." src="http://receivehealing.com/blog/wp-includes/js/tinymce/plugins/wordpress/img/trans.gif" alt="" /> for a better future.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Keep in focus that God has in mind even better for you than you can imagine for yourself.</span></strong></p>
<p>This is a favorite quote I speak over my life.</p>
<blockquote><p>To Him who by His power that is at work within us, is able to carry out His purpose and do superabundantly, far over and above all that we dare ask or think-infinitely beyond our highest prayers, desires, thoughts, hopes or dreams. Eph. 3:20 Amp</p></blockquote>
<p>Along the same line of thought is the Law of Attraction, a philosophy based on the scriptural concept of &#8220;according to your faith it will be done to you.&#8221; It is essential for you to <span style="text-decoration: underline;">expect</span> a better year for you to <span style="text-decoration: underline;">experience</span> the &#8220;new&#8221; that you desire in this year. When you live in a state of expectancy, your positive attitude will improve the way people respond to you. When you envision a better life for yourself, your mind will be more creative in possibilities to reach your goals. This type of focus then causes your spirit to become aware of right choices, paths, opportunities that you would have otherwise missed if you were not living in expectancy.</p>
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<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Last, make new progress in your spiritual life.</span></strong></p>
<p>We are spiritual beings in a physical body. Our spirits were created to live in a loving relationship with our Creator, God. The health of one&#8217;s spirit affects every aspect of life. Making a decision to learn to live in a loving relationship with God if you have not already done so, or to build on the one you already have, will only prove to bring new, wonderful experiences during the gift of life in this new year. God expresses this thought in 2 Corinthians 5:17,</p>
<blockquote><p>Therefore, if any one is in union with Christ, he is a new being! His old life has passed away; a new life has begun! (TCNT)</p></blockquote>
<p>God has granted you the gift of a new year to live life. Know Him in increasing measure. Allow God to live this life with you as both of you relish in a new life in this new year!</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2012 11:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>R.H.</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A new year brings most of us the hope of starting over. We desire to see life be better in various areas of our lives during the new year. To start over, to experience a better life, make the decision to allow your year to be new. First, forgive yourself of ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='series_toc'><h3>Table of contents for Allowing the New Year to be New</h3><ol><li>Allowing the New Year to be New Part 1</li><li><a href='http://receivehealing.com/blog/2135/allowing-the-new-year-to-be-new-part-2/' title='Allowing the New Year to be New Part 2'>Allowing the New Year to be New Part 2</a></li></ol></div> <p>A new year brings most of us the hope of starting over. We desire to see life be better in various areas of our lives during the new year. To start over, to experience a better life, <span style="color: #000000;">make the decision to allow your year to be new.  <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Let&#8217;s cover 6 vital decisions to allow your year to be new</span>!  <em>(3 decisions in this post, 3 decisions in Part 2)</em></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong>First, forgive yourself of past mistakes.</strong></span></p>
<p>Self-condemnation has no benefit. Even God desires us to live without the weight of condemnation. Romans 8:1,2 says that there is no condemnation for those who live in Jesus because God&#8217;s Spirit has freed them from the laws (the control, the results) of sin and death.</p>
<p><span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong>Second, forgive others.</strong></span></p>
<p>Remember, if you&#8217;ve followed the posts this past year, forgiveness does not involve allowing people to mistreat you. There is a difference between forgiveness and reconciliation. For reconciliation to take place<span id="more-295"></span>, it involves both people being willing to have resolution; in many situations, this is impossible. However, forgiveness takes place in your own heart and frees you from being emotionally tied to that person and bad experience for the rest of your life. For a full discussion on this topic, read the post, <a href="http://receivehealing.com/blog/107/forgiveness-or-reconciliation-understanding-the-difference/" target="_blank">Forgiveness or Reconciliation: Understanding the Difference</a>.</p>
<p><span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong>Third, forget what God forgets.</strong></span></p>
<p>That may sound strange to someone who, at first thought, believes that God does not forget. Unlike people, God&#8217;s forgetfulness is not due to insufficient memory capability; He chooses to forget certain things. God counsels us to be like Him and do the same thing with emotional baggage or bad past experiences. Yes, be reconciled with those who hurt you if possible. Yes, apologize to someone you have offended if possible. But for negative experiences that can never be resolved or undone, it is time to forget.</p>
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<p>I heard a great illustration about forgetfulness. I heard Kenneth Copeland talk about a past experience in which he felt self-condemnation. God spoke to his heart and said, &#8220;I told you in my Word to forget that.&#8221; When Kenneth asked God about why He chooses forget our failures, God spoke to his spirit, &#8220;Do you want to remember the bad about your children?&#8221; Out of His love for us, so the relationship is reconciled between us and Him, God chooses to forget our failures. As this next quote below explains, we, too, need only to hold to anything beneficial we may have learned from the experience, but then let it go and move on.</p>
<p><em>(The last 3 vital decisions for making your New Year new are in Part 2 of this post.)</em></p>
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		<title>When is Your Generosity Unhealthy?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Nov 2011 11:55:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>R.H.</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Often generous people, who quickly respond to the needs around them, come to a point of wondering why they are struggling with exhaustion and resentment...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Generosity should always be a good thing, but the reality is that generosity &#8220;done right&#8221; will not leave you unhealthy and burned out because it is controlled by wisdom.</span></strong></p>
<p>Generous people are often compulsive givers, quickly responding to the needs around them, even to their own detriment. It does not take too many years of a lifestyle of compulsive giving to leave one wondering why — when he (or she) has been such a good, caring person — he is struggling with exhaustion and resentment. Ever catch yourself wondering, “How can my life be so miserable and out of control when all I have done is spent my life helping people in need?” People with generous spirits often burn out due to not having healthy generosity. <span style="text-decoration: underline;">No, not all generosity is healthy; just as with every other area of your life, it must be controlled by wisdom</span>.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">A generous person who is also a religious person tends to be more readily trapped into a lifestyle of unhealthy, unwise giving.</span></strong></p>
<p>As I have mentioned in prior posts, the life of a religious person that is unhappy and out of balance is often due to childhood teaching that is based on religious tradition rather than the truth of Scripture. Let’s look at a quote on giving that is frequently misunderstood due to religious tradition.</p>
<blockquote><p>Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourself. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others. Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus. Phil. 2:3-5</p></blockquote>
<p>This quote is used by religious tradition to promote a life of self abasement, or self neglect, when, in actuality, it is promoting a lifestyle of<span id="more-2083"></span> balance in the attitude of giving. First, it expresses the need for those who struggle with selfish ambition and pride to combat that unhealthy, imbalanced attitude by thinking better of others. The second sentence, used by religious tradition to make people feel guilty for taking care of their own needs, does not promote unhealthy giving that only looks to the interests of others. Look at the quote again, “Look not only to your own interests…”</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">The words “not only” mean 2 things are to be taking place — Yes, take care of your own interests (or needs), but remember to also take care of the needs of others. God does not say to only give to others’ needs and neglect your own interests</span>; on the contrary, He says to take care of your own needs and the needs of others. It is significant that taking care of your own needs is mentioned first, as you cannot effectively take care of other people’s needs unless you first take care of your own so that you are a “whole” person.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">To have a healthy, wise, and balanced lifestyle of giving, it is also important to remember that givers usually have difficulty discerning which situations are the other person’s actual needs.</span></strong></p>
<p>A person who is a user/abuser tries to get out of his personal life responsibilities by promoting his irresponsibilities as needs. It is unwise and unhealthy for both people involved when a giving person takes care of situations that are the user’s personal responsibility. It enables the user to stay irresponsible and overloads and burns out the giver. If you need more information on these types of situations, use these links to read about it in detail.<br />
<a href="http://receivehealing.com/blog/488/spiritual-guidelines-to-stay-free/" target="_blank">Spiritual Guidelines to Stay Free From Abusive Relationships</a><br />
<a href="http://receivehealing.com/blog/367/freedom-through-responsibility/" target="_blank">Freedom Through Responsibility</a></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Let’s look at one last quote that effectively describes healthy, wise, controlled giving.</span></strong></p>
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<blockquote><p>For if the willingness is there, the gift is acceptable according to what one has, not according to what he does not have. Our desire is not that others might be relieved while you are hard pressed, but that there might be equality. At the present time your plenty will supply what they need, so that in turn their plenty will supply what you need. Then there will be equality. 2 Cor. 8:12-14</p></blockquote>
<p>The easiest way to explain this quote is to again paraphrase. If you have a willingness to give, you are to give based on what you have, so that you are not hard pressed. If you are depleted of both energy and time, you are “hard pressed;” you need to rest and be refreshed so that you will again be able to give of what you have, i.e. time and energy. If someone keeps expecting you to pay their bills and it is causing you to be “hard pressed,” it is not healthy giving. The person’s need may be real, but you are not the one to be giving at this time. Get the person in touch with a charity organization, food pantry, church, etc. which has avenues available to help needy people.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Take a self inventory to determine the healthiness of your giving.</span></strong></p>
<p>How happy, rested, and refreshed are you now-physically, emotionally, financially, and spiritually? If you are exhausted, depleted, and struggling with resentment, it is time to step back and re-evaluate your giving. God doesn’t expect you to give until you are hard-pressed. He desires “equality” or balance in your life and relationships. Evaluate which areas of your life and relationships are unhealthy, out-of-control and causing you to be hard-pressed. <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Make the necessary changes so that you are refreshed and restored. Controlled giving is truly wise and healthy giving</span>.</p>
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		<title>Bad Day Recovery Plan</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Nov 2011 21:17:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>R.H.</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is no need to stay stuck in the misery of a bad day. I cam across a very practical, helpful article by psychologist and life coach...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;"><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">There is no need to stay stuck in the misery of a bad day.</span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #000000;">I cam across a very practical, helpful article by psychologist and life coach Melissa McCreery with tips to move on from the guilt, anger, hurt, or frustrations of a bad day and get back to the peace and productivity of a positive mindset.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Ms. McCreery says that the secret to thriving is learning how to move forward in spite of bad days</span>.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Here are some excerpts of from Melissa’s article, “How to Recover from a Bad Day:”</span></strong></p>
<blockquote style="text-align: left;"><p><span style="color: #000000;">1. Give yourself permission to have a bad day. Stop beating yourself up so that you can move on. Let go of blame and guilt, realizing that a bad day does not mean you failed.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">2. Ask, “What will I need to let go of to do move on?” You must be willing to stop beating yourself up, feeling miserable (or hurt or angry), drowning your sorrows, or feeling victimized.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">3. Decide what do you want to move on TO?   How do you want things to be? How do you want to feel? What do you want your<span id="more-2072"></span> mindset or mental attitude to be?</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">4. Take a look in the mirror at your posture and facial expressions; make sure you aren’t still carrying your bad day with you.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">5. What helps you to feel present in this moment? People accomplish this in different ways: deep breathing, physical activity, writing in a journal, or spending quiet time alone. Set your intention for how you want to BE in the present moment and into the future.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">6. What special thing can you do for yourself? Call a friend, rent a movie, pick flowers, get a massage, take a long bath, etc. Bad day recovery plans need some self-care time.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">7. What’s one thing small positive action you can commit to take just to know you are making progress? Do a good deed, workout, clean out one drawer. This goal is the first step toward to a positive track; when that’s done, take the next one.</span></p>
<p><em>Melissa is a fellow SelfGrowth.com expert. You can read more on Melissa McCreery, PhD, ACC, Psychologist and Life Coach on her </em><a href="http://www.selfgrowth.com/experts/melissa_mccreery.html" target="_blank"><em>SelfGrowth page</em></a><em> or  her </em><a href="http://www.enduringchange.com/" target="_blank"><em>full website</em></a><em>.</em></p></blockquote>
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		<title>Kindness: Have You Considered Committing a Random Act?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 20:43:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>R.H.</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When is the last time you committed the random act of kindness which we all hold in such high esteem? Gifting someone else’s life with an unexpected, and even undeserved, kindness is living at the peak of human character, achieving one of the most perfect elements of the human spirit. While most anyone believes that [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">When is the last time you committed the random act of kindness which we all hold in such high esteem?</span></strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Gifting someone else’s life with an unexpected, and even undeserved, kindness is living at the peak of human character, achieving one of the most perfect elements of the human spirit. While most anyone believes that random acts of kindness are a part of the ultimate lifestyle and a thing a beauty in life, stress and busyness can prevent you from consistently thinking creatively enough to live out such acts in your own life.</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">People of great admiration throughout history have spurred us on to live a lifestyle of random acts of kindness.</span></strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I’m pasting a few quotes here from both secular and religious authors challenging us to commit random acts of kindness, with links to 2 sites of quotes which you will probably enjoy reading as well.</span></p>
<blockquote><p><span style="color: #000000;">Kind words can be short and easy to speak but their echoes are truly endless. Mother Teresa</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Kindness in words creates confidence. Kindness in thinking creates profundity. Kindness in giving creates love. Lao-Tse</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Remember there’s no such thing as a <span id="more-2066"></span>small act of kindness. Every act creates a ripple with no logical end. Scott Adams(1)</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Let no one ever come to you without leaving better and happier. Be the living expression of God’s kindness: kindness in your face, kindness in your eyes, kindness in your smile.<br />
Mother Teresa</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Constant kindness can accomplish much. As the sun makes ice melt, kindness causes misunderstandings, mistrust, and hostility to evaporate. Albert Schweitzer(2)</span></p></blockquote>
<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Rather than missing out on one of the highest joys of life by allowing busyness to steal from you those opportunities for random acts of kindness, decide to daily envision yourself as “clothed” with kindness.</span></strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">When God encourages us to reach for the pinnacle of what is happiest, healthiest, and best in the human spirit, he describes it as being “clothed” or totally covered with kindness.</span></p>
<blockquote><p><span style="color: #000000;">As God’s people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Col 3:12</span></p></blockquote>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Though clothing may vary from culture to culture, to correctly envision this statement, you must envision it as in the Middle Eastern culture of 2000 years ago when it was written. Clothing was from head to toe. God says to envision yourself as being completely enveloped in kindness, along with other similar traits. If you follow this advice and envision yourself that way each day, it will be easier to flow into the creative mindset of committing random acts of kindness.</span></p>
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<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">What does kindness entail</span><span style="color: #0000ff;">?</span></strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">You can think of a million ways to express kindness through the day as you envision yourself as clothed with it, but let’s take just a moment to define the mental concept.</span></p>
<blockquote><p><span style="color: #000000;">In Scripture, the Hebrew for kindness, checed, includes the concepts of piety, beauty, favor, good deeds, loving kindness, and mercy.(3)</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">In the Greek part of Scripture, 2 words are used. Philanthropia, from which we get our term philanthropy, includes benevolence, fondness, and love of mankind.(4) The other Greek term, chrestotes, includes usefulness morally, excellence in character, gentleness, and goodness.(4)</span></p></blockquote>
<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Don’t deprive yourself of the joy.</span></strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">In reality, this is probably one of the easiest things you can do in life to be in tune with one of the most excellent parts of the human spirit as God created it, as well as bring to yourself (not just the other person) a level of joy that rarely can be matched by any other deed in life. Don’t wait. Go out and commit some random acts of kindness.</span></p>
<p><em>1. The first 3 quotes and many others on the topic of kindness may be read at: <a href="http://personaldevelopment.suite101.com/article.cfm/acts_of_kindness_inspiring_quotes" target="_blank">Suite101.com Personal Development – Acts of Kindness<br />
</a></em><em>2. The last 2 quotes and many others on the topic of kindness may be read at: this <a href="http://schools.hpedsb.on.ca/smood/kindness/quotes.htm" target="_blank">site by the Prince Edward School District in Canada on Random Acts of Kindness<br />
</a></em><em>3. Strong’s Dictionary of Old Testament Words (Hebrew)<br />
</em><em>4. Strong’s Dictionary of Old Testament Words (Greek)</em></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[In this post, we’ll discuss Health Risks from Underwire Bras, Simple Wardrobe Changes for Better Health, and Relief for Fibrocystic Cysts...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='series_toc'><h3>Table of contents for Breast Cancer Risk & Your Wardrobe</h3><ol><li><a href='http://receivehealing.com/blog/2048/breast-cancer-and-your-wardrobe-choices-part-1/' title='Breast Cancer and Your Wardrobe Choices Part 1'>Breast Cancer and Your Wardrobe Choices Part 1</a></li><li>Breast Cancer and Your Wardrobe Choices Part 2</li></ol></div> <p style="text-align: left;"><em><span style="color: #0000ff;">This is Part 2 of a two-part post; we’ll discuss Health Risks from Underwire Bras, Simple Wardrobe Changes for Better Health, and Relief for Fibrocystic Cysts.  In Part 1, we covered which wardrobe choices increase cancer risks and important study results. If you missed Part 1, use the series link above.</span></em></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">The Health Risks of Underwire Bras</span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #000000;">According to Dr. Mercola, even though the underwire is plastic coated, there are long-term health risks involved by having that metal on your body. Underwire bras put continual pressure on vital lymphatic reflex points which are located below each breast. He says,</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #000000;">Below your breasts are two important neuro-lymphatic reflex points. The one below your right breast corresponds to your liver and gallbladder. The one below your left breast goes to your stomach. In addition, the metal wire can also act as an antenna attracting electromagnetic fields, which can also increase your risk of breast cancer.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #000000;">Dr. Mercola quotes a study by John D. Andre, D.C., N.D., to describe the harm underwires do to these reflex points. Here is an excerpt:</span></p>
<blockquote style="text-align: left;"><p><span style="color: #000000;">These reflexes, like all acupuncture points, follow the Law of Stimulation. In the beginning of stimulating a point, it is stimulated &#8211; often causing an increase in associated function. Later on, this continued stimulation causes sedation of that point and a subsequent decrease in its associated function. It’s a mechanical thing. If a woman keeps the metal underwires on top of those reflex points, over time that WILL mess up the functioning of the associated circuits: Liver, gallbladder, and stomach. Bottom Line: It will likely make her sick; slowly and quietly. John D. Andre, D.C., N.D</span></p></blockquote>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Simple Wardrobe Changes for Better Health</span></strong></p>
<blockquote style="text-align: left;"><p><span style="color: #0000ff;">The Best Option:</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Dr Mercola recommends a <span id="more-2053"></span>wireless style for your greatest health improvements–</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">An even better option is to opt for a wireless style bra, which are now available in most brands, and for various levels of support. Sports bras and camisoles with a built-in shelf bra are other options that can work well, especially if your bust is on the smaller side.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #0000ff;">Option for Those Needing Underwires:</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">He says that wearing metal needs to be avoided and recommends switching to a plastic wire instead of a metal one–</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">BraMakersSupply.com is one of the few companies that carry the whole range of plastic wire sizes and ship across the world. And at $2 per pair, protecting your long-term health couldn’t be much more affordable.</span></p></blockquote>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Other Helpful Resources for Breast Health and Relief of Fibrocystic Breasts</span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #000000;">These two articles are sources I came across which you should find helpful:</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #000000;">A “must read” for anyone with breast pain and/or cysts is the article on</span> <a href="http://www.womentowomen.com/breasthealth/breastpain.aspx" target="_blank">Relieving Breast Pain</a> <span style="color: #000000;">by Woman-to-Woman.com. </span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #000000;">Carolyn Chambers has a long list of holistic helps, but of specific interest is her list of dietary changes, listed about half way down her webpage.  Click here for to read the</span> <a href="http://www.carolynchambersclark.com/id138.html" target="_blank">Healing Diet</a>.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><em><span style="color: #0000ff;">The above excerpts are from Dr. Joseph Mercola’s email newsletter. Please use this link to</span> <a href="http://articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2009/05/19/Can-Wearing-Your-Bra-Cause-Cancer.aspx" target="_blank">read his full article</a>.</em></p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Oct 2011 18:43:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Studies are showing that ill-fitting bras, as well as the most popular style of bras, hinder lymph node function, increasing breast cancer risk....]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='series_toc'><h3>Table of contents for Breast Cancer Risk & Your Wardrobe</h3><ol><li>Breast Cancer and Your Wardrobe Choices Part 1</li><li><a href='http://receivehealing.com/blog/2053/breast-cancer-and-your-wardrobe-choices-part-2/' title='Breast Cancer and Your Wardrobe Choices Part 2'>Breast Cancer and Your Wardrobe Choices Part 2</a></li></ol></div> <p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">What’s in your wardrobe? Studies are showing that the most popular style of bras hinder lymph node function, increasing breast cancer risk.</span></strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Ill-fitting bras, as well as the most popular style of bra, the metal underwire, increase your potential health risks. Lymph nodes, which purpose are to daily excrete toxins from your body, are unable to drain properly when tight-fitting bras or underwire bras consistently press on their reflex points.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Dr. Joseph Mercola recently sent out a newsletter with data from various doctors and researchers studying the effects of impaired lymph node drainage due to constrictive clothing. We are exposed to many dangerous toxins everyday that the body needs to eliminate. Dr. Mercola says that even the aluminum in antiperspirants is a dangerous toxin which the body needs to eliminate.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I’m categorizing below a few excerpts from this essential information related to breast cancer. Please use the newsletter link here or the one at the end of this post to</span> <a href="http://articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2009/05/19/Can-Wearing-Your-Bra-Cause-Cancer.aspx" target="_blank">read Dr. Mercola’s full article</a>.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">How do ill-fitting bras, underwire bras, and other constrictive clothing increase cancer risk as well as fibrocystic breasts?</span></strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Read the important medical findings from these 3 excerpts:</span></p>
<blockquote><p><span style="color: #000000;">Over 85 percent of the lymph fluid flowing from the breast drains to the armpit lymph nodes. Most of the rest drains to the nodes along the breast bone. Bras and other external tight clothing can impede flow…as a result of cutting off lymphatic drainage, so that toxic chemicals are trapped in the breast. Dr. Michael Schacter, M.D, The Prevention and Complementary Treatment of Breast Cancer</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Constricting bras have also been implicated in <span id="more-2048"></span>the rise of benign (non-cancerous) but often painful breast cysts and lumps. Dr. John McDougall, M.D., The McDougall Program for a Healthy Heart</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">After repeated bouts of inflammation, the breasts develop scar tissue in many places, and some of the milk ducts become plugged, forming cysts. Fibrocystic breast disease, not surprisingly, is associated with a higher risk of breast cancer. Edinburgh Breast Group, UK, Lancet May 1999</span></p></blockquote>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">As a woman’s body is constantly changing throughout life, re-measuring should take place fairly often to ensure that your bra is not only comfortable, but a safe fit. Though many sites offer complex calculations, Dr. Mercola referred to a site by a company called Linda’s Bra School out of New York which automatically calculates your correct bra size after entering 2 simple measurements. Click here to use the bra size calculator on Linda’s site in her</span> <a href="http://www.lindasonline.com/bra-fitting-room.html" target="_blank">Bra Fitting Room</a>.  <span style="color: #000000;">Though it may sound unusual, proper fit is actually a serious health issue.</span></p>
<div><span style="color: #0000ff;"><em>This is Part 1 of a 2 part post.  In Part 2, we will cover Health Risks from Underwire Bras, Simple Wardrobe Changes for Better Health, and Relief for Fibrocystic Cysts.</em></span></div>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Sep 2011 21:21:15 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;"><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Laughter  -  It is something we all enjoying hearing, something we all enjoy doing.  It has natural healing powers.  It’s time to do more of it! </span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong></strong><span style="color: #000000;">For over a thousand years, long before the realm of modern science, age old proverbs reminded people of the healing power of laughter, </span></p>
<blockquote style="text-align: left;"><p><span style="color: #000000;">A rejoicing heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones. Prov. 17:22</span></p></blockquote>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #000000;">Dr. Don Colbert shares that laughter is one of his prescriptions to patients who come to be placed on nutritional programs. He has discovered that when he asks patients how often they laugh, most cancer patients respond, “I never laugh.” He prescribes 10 belly laughs a day for his patients. (1)</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Research has shown a wide variety of healing aspects from laughter:</span></strong></p>
<blockquote style="text-align: left;"><p><span style="color: #0000ff;">Pain Relief -</span> <span style="color: #000000;">A study of patients recovering from surgery showed that the group which was allowed to choose the humorous movies they saw benefited the most from the laughter therapy and required fewer pain-killers compared with a control group that saw none at all. (2) Other research has also shown laughter to increase one’s pain threshold. (4)</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #0000ff;">Lower Blood Pressure -</span> <span style="color: #000000;">Laughter reduces the levels of stress hormones such as cortisol, epinephrine (adrenaline), and dopamine (4); stress hormones, on the other hand, increase <span id="more-2042"></span></span><span style="color: #000000;">the number of platelets, causing obstructions in the arteries and raising blood pressure. (3)</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #0000ff;">Relaxation Therapy and Improved Digestion -</span> <span style="color: #000000;">French neurologist Henri Rubenstein said that even one minute of laughter can give the body up to 45 minutes of therapeutic relaxation. It also stimulates appetite and digestion. (1)</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #0000ff;">Boosted Immune System -</span> <span style="color: #000000;">Laughter increases natural killer cells which destroy tumors and viruses, Gamma-interferon–a disease fighting protein, T-cells–a vital part of the immune system, and B-cells–which make disease-destroying antibodies. Laughter also increases salivary immunoglobulin A, which defends against infectious organisms entering the respiratory tract. (3)</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #0000ff;">Speedy Healing -</span> <span style="color: #000000;">French doctor Pierre Vachet, who studied the physiology of laughter, has concluded that laughter expands the blood vessels and sends more blood racing to the extremities. As it sends more oxygen to every cell in the body, it also serves to speed tissue healing and stabilize many body functions. (2)</span></p></blockquote>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Make it a point to daily experience the healing benefits of laughter.</span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #000000;">E.E. Cummings said, “The most wasted of all days is one without laughter.” Since life is too valuable to be wasted, let us not waste a single day by letting it go by without frequent laughter.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #000000;">If you feel you need help in developing the ability to laugh in your life, I actually found some beneficial info online at HelpGuide.org. It has 2 brief, practical articles to help you develop more laughter in your life, </span><a href="http://www.helpguide.org/life/humor_laughter_health.htm#life" target="_blank"><span style="color: #000000;">Bringing More Laughter into Your Life</span></a><span style="color: #000000;"> and </span><a href="http://www.helpguide.org/life/humor_laughter_health.htm#sense" target="_blank"><span style="color: #000000;">Developing Your Sense of Humor</span></a>.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><em>1. Seven Pillars of Health, pg. 244, Dr. Don Colbert<br />
2. </em><a href="http://www.indiadiets.com/Alternative%20Healing/Laughter.htm" target="_blank"><em>Alternative Healing/Laughter</em></a><em>, Indiadiets.com<br />
3. </em><a href="http://library.thinkquest.org/25500/index2.htm" target="_blank"><em>Laughing Out Loud to Good Health</em></a><em>, Library Think Quest<br />
4. </em><a href="http://stress.about.com/od/stresshealth/a/laughter.htm" target="_blank"><em>The Stress Management and Health Benefits of Laughter</em></a><em>, Elizabeth Scott, M.S., About.com/Stress</em></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[In each of us is the innate desire to live a life that we truly love. I recently read a very valuable article which covered many essential aspects of rebuilding your life to be the healthy, effective life that you desire to live. Kim Child’s article featured quotes from 3 life coach experts, footnoted below, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">In each of us is the innate desire to live a life that we truly love.</span></strong></p>
<p>I recently read a very valuable article which covered many essential aspects of rebuilding your life to be the healthy, effective life that you desire to live. Kim Child’s article featured quotes from 3 life coach experts, footnoted below, to explain how to make lasting changes for a life that you will love. She discovered most effective life makeovers involve starting with (a) small steps, (b) setting boundaries, and (c) reaching out for support. Here are excerpts from the main points in Ms. Child’s article:</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">First, look at what is already working well in your life.</span></strong></p>
<p>Even when a person feels like everything in his life must be changed, usually there are some things that are working well which should be noted and appreciated. Life coach Victoria Moran suggests to list 10 things for which you are grateful about in your life each morning before getting out of bed.(1)</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Second, take time for prayer, meditation, and/or journaling before the day’s agenda begins. </span></strong></p>
<p>This is essential to craft a health lifestyle and stay centered [on what is healthful, best, and important] in the midst of change<span id="more-2002"></span>.(1)</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Third, it is importance to focus on a daily plan of nutrition and exercise.</span></strong></p>
<p>Moran refers to this as “taking care of the vehicle,” saying, “Regardless of what you want in life, you have to get it in this physical body…You’re not going to have a very good shot at changing your attitude and thinking positive thoughts if those thoughts have to be filtered through a brain that is living on junk food and doesn’t have enough oxygen because you don’t exercise.(1)</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Fourth, once one has begun to make positive changes, he needs to clean up the environment in which the old, self-destructive habits flourished.</span></strong></p>
<p>Ms. Childs next refers to life coach Cheryl Richardson for input on how people pleasers have to start saying “No” and setting boundaries where boundaries did not exist before. Ms. Richardson says that as people learn to practice taking better care of themselves, former habits in relationships need to change. “In order to live a high-quality life – a life that truly honors your self-care — you have to master the art of disappointing people, making them angry or hurting their feelings.” Avoiding the discomfort of displeasing others results in “living for others, becoming resentful or even sick, and struggling with relationships when resentments build.” Richardson advises people to think ahead of time of a response that is truthful, respectful, but direct enough to communicate that you are saying “No.”(2)  <em>[This is similar to the chapter from Cloud and Townsend's "Boundaries" in which says it is often necessary to hurt people to do what is right and healthy for you; this does not "harm" the person, even though it may hurt their feelings. This realization helps you implement such changes. Click here to read the post, </em><a href="http://receivehealing.com/blog/1793/when-is-pain-good-2/" target="_blank"><em>When is Pain Good? </em></a><em>] </em></p>
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<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Fifth, starting over with re-making one’s life means setting boundaries for yourself, too, by changing areas that are messy, neglected, or out of balance.</span></strong></p>
<p>Home and work environments need to be de-cluttered to “honor your deepest need for things like joy, beauty, rest, creative expression, and peace.” Investing in these basic needs first will then allow one to focus successfully on areas such as financial debt and poor relationships. An uncluttered home is soul nourishing and an investment in your financial health. With relationships that are “one way streets, you need to focus on telling the truth in your relationships and letting toxic people go.”(2)</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Sixth, create a circle of support to practice self-care and stay on track as your true dreams and desires become more apparent.</span></strong></p>
<p>This is especially necessary when family members or friends do not understand or appreciate one’s new ways. Without support and accountability, old habits will slip back in, causing you to fall short of success. These support groups are essential to keep you from feeling that you have lost your mind when family and friends are lacking in understanding.(2)</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">Seventh, envision the life that you dream of having.</span></strong></p>
<p>[As with the Law of Attraction, and even with the scriptural principle of visualization that God gave Abraham for his promised descendants, it is important to be able to visualize where your life needs to go. For more on this, read the post <a href="http://receivehealing.com/blog/352/visualizing-your-dreams/" target="_blank">Visualizing Your Dreams</a>.] As described by Bob Doyle in his program “Wealth Beyond Reason,” a person’s thoughts, emotions, and expectations shape their life experiences.”   Doyle also encourages a network of support, making the valid point that “It doesn’t matter how much you know intellectually about a particular thing, there’s always going to be somebody who sees you differently than you are able to see yourself.”(3)</p>
<p><em>Excerpts from “Fall in Love with Your Life,” Kim Childs, pp. 24-27, Natural Awakenings, February 2009 issue.</em></p>
<blockquote><p><em>(1) Quotes from life coach Victoria Moran’s “Living a Charmed Life: Your Guide to Finding Magic in Every Moment and Meaning in Every Day.”<br />
</em><em>(2) Quotes from life coach Cheryl Richardson’s “The Art of Extreme Self-Care.”<br />
(3) Quotes from Bob Doyle’s at BoundlessLiving.com</em></p></blockquote>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">You can elevate the rate at which your body burns calories and better manage your weight by minor adjustments to how and what you eat.</span></strong></p>
<p>These are some excerpts from the footnoted Metabolism article below:</p>
<blockquote><p>1. Don’t skip breakfast &#8211; Your metabolism slows down overnight and will continue to lag if you have too few calories for breakfast.</p>
<p>2. Eat small meals and snacks several times a day – Eating less food at a time but more frequently (instead of more food a few times a day) increases your metabolism.</p>
<p>3. Choose wise food types &#8211; Pick foods which are healthy proteins and take more energy to digest, high fiber foods which make you feel full and take longer to digest, soups, beans, fresh vegetables and fruits.<span id="more-1956"></span></p>
<p>4. Eat spicy foods &#8211; Spicy foods such as chili speed up metabolism as much as 25% for a short time after eating them.</p>
<p>5. Eat cleansing foods &#8211; Do a good dietary cleansing. Include many high fiber, antioxidant-packed raw vegetables and fruits to remove toxins and unwanted fat.</p>
<p>6. Exercise &#8211; Exercising for more than 30 minutes can elevate your metabolism during exercise and for several hours afterward. The muscle you build from exercising also burns more calories.</p></blockquote>
<p><em>Excerpts from “Raise Your Metabolism,” p.26, Extraordinary Health, Vol. 5<br />
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